I’m 5′5 and 120 pounds of hot fat. Sure, it hurts very healthy, and held those standards that women should weigh more than 105 and even less the shorter they are. It is difficult for the average girl as it is difficult for older girls. I fall in the 19th 5 percentile, which is an ideal weight according to doctors, but not the perfect weight so much as think most girls aged between 15-25 at. I have friends who would always hate me and take me down and call me fat-I, the friends, but deep down I started to think: “I’m unattractive.” It did not matter whether I had a beautiful, natural face make-up, who can not do, nope. . . I began to believe the hype. Now, it is difficult to even further. I’m surrounded by girls who stick bodies and emo hairstyles are. I am not too caught shopping or not I really thought at first. As an intelligent person would think I would be better. But men buy. I am very nerdy, singing in jazz bands, I love retro games, the original Star Trek, Laning PC games, Laning hosting parties, reading comic books-you name it. But geeky boys, they would prefer a girl on her arm, a skeleton without any material interests or skills, not just flat. Geeky people say they want Nerdcore girls, but they go for skinny princess types, and why? They say we are thick. You think 120 is fat! Wow. It is quite difficult to bring your whole self to the world with unrealistic expectations of love. It is a social norm, after all. His lean automatically qualify someone to be so attractive now. Now, before you call me a self-loathing losers who listen to my fate. I want to live in a world where it is okay to any size, I’m not hating on thin girls, I have some very smart / funny I met’m only say that I thought, race, a good thing. I went out the other day, and two girls living in my apartment, do not know me said loudly: “I would murder me if I as fat as the bears and the dress.” I am a size 3! Why does the world as a distorted image on the weight? Social norms are “abnormal” for me. Not that you blame on the media, in all seriousness, something deeper than that. The media and people not directly control their thoughts and actions, we are smarter than that, what is your take?
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